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    Discussion in 'Off-Topic' started by jarroy, Jul 11, 2014.

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    1. jarroy
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      As the title implies, I will be taking a break, basically from Minecraft itself.

      There have been some serious issues going on in my life, and I've decided to share those issues with you guys, as I've heard, it's kind of therapeutic sharing what's been going on, with close friends. (Those close friends being you guys :happy:)

      In the past 4 or 5 months, I've noticed my parents haven't been really, buddy buddy, and they seem to have been inching away from each other. Last month they started continuously fight over stupid and pointless things. Such as, "why didn't you pay the water bill", "Why won't you drive -insert sister's name- to her dance class", or "Why don't you cook dinner tonight?!". They are stupid and pointless to me, because my parents don't ever fight over something like that. There's also been continuous swearing. That's not something normal in our household, as my family is religious and stuff.

      On July 3rd they announced their Divorce. They told me and my older sister and two younger sisters. The older of the three sisters lost it, and was begging them to rethink what they said. I guess, I was kind of in shock. We didn't have a really good time on the 4th of July. Even now, no one seems happy here. I try to act happy and my normal ways here on the Forums, because I don't want anyone thinking something was wrong.

      This is really hard, on me and my sisters, because there's that big question: Which parent is going to keep which kid? I don't like the idea of being seperated from siblings I've grown up with my whole life, I don't think anyone would like that. I couldn't choose which parent to stay with. Both of my parents have decided to move to different states. That's a really big issue, because instead of being away from each other in the same state, we're going to be more than a few states away. My mother has decided to move to Florida, and my father has decided to move to NYC. That is literally across the country.

      I've heard my older sister talk about it, and she said, if she had to choose, she would go with my Dad. I would move in with my Mom. My other two younger sisters, aged 12 and 3 [3 as of July 9th :)] are going to have to choose when they get their divorce confirmed. Either that, or they will both go to seperate foster homes. I don't like the idea of that happening. I can't deal with all of this. I need to sort out my life, like, new school, new friends, new state. I'm starting to think my life is falling apart, but I know these forums are holding me in, telling me, that this is not the end.


      I enjoy being here. It's part of my life now.

      @blossumwarrior
      For being that one friend who sticks with me. We've been through some tough times, and even hated each other at one or 2 points, but it makes me happy that you are still here for me. We've had our weird days, we've had our twinning days, we've had our LOL days.

      @Firo3000
      Since the day I met you, I knew we would become great friends. Yes, there have been many [many] obstacles in our friendship, and I'm pretty sure I have caused them all, but I hope you know I still like [wub] you, and will forever be a friend to me.

      @pokemaniac01 Nub of all nubs. You are a fun person to be around with, maybe when I do move to Florida, I'll get to meet you, and you can finally give me your Skype :p

      @MrParkourGuy
      I've only skyped you once and I didn't even talk, but you are an incredibly funny [and segzi] person. I can't say much of you, because I haven't got to know you that well, but maybe someday we can catch up.

      @Pile_of_Butts
      That one point when we were really close friends, you are so kind to the entire world. You see the good in everyone even after they have done something bad. Some people abuse that and make you feel bad, but you still, wake up everyday, with a bright smile, to continue doing what you love.


      @Lola Perez
      You make me laugh everytime I see you online. You are too funny. You are also very kind to me. I like your positive attitude and how great you are c:

      @Everyone
      Thank you for being there for me. Up until now, no one knew what I am going through, but like I said, sharing it with some of your close friends actually helps.

      Anyways, I just wanted to share that. And of course, tell you I'm taking a break from Minecraft. But I will still be here on the Forums.

      ~aples
       
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      D: c u soon
      Will miss ya
       
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      It's sad to see you go, you've been my best friend ever since I joined,

      You will always be my best friend, I hope everything turns out well for you, I wish you the best, goodbye... :(
       
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      Awwwww I'm sooooo sorry! Come back soon. I'll miss you <3
       
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      Bye....
       
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      #BringBackKatyHudson
      #BringBackJarroy
       
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      We haven't gotten along a lot since I've known you, but we're going to miss you Jarroy. And I can understand how much stress you are under right now, and I respect how strong you've been through this situation. I wish you the best of luck, and we hope to see you soon!
       
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      Jarroy I am so sorry to hear about your parents divorce.
      It is never an easy thing. Take time to med yourself and know their differences have absolutely nothing to do with you nor mean that they love you any less.
      Life is imperfect.
      People make mistakes, and sometimes those mistakes can not be fixed.
      You will be in my thoughts.
      xoxoxoxoxox
       
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      Thanks for the kind words c:
      I guess I'm sort of bumping this :p
       
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      Aw man that is so sad :(. Hope you come back son and ily
       
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      Bye JarroyOn***a , Imma miss you. :( I hope things get better with you and I hope you come back stronger than ever. Much love , Bai baebae <3
       
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      So sorry to hear that jarroy, stay strong. Bye..
       
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      So Sad :( I hope to see you soon :>
       
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      things will get better.
       
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      ily Jarroy <3

      Hope everything's okay soon <33
       
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      Hope everything is gonna be ok... Im having pretty much in the sane situation as you though Ive never had a father.. But STAY strong!
       
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      That has to be hard. I wish i could give some sort of help since i hate it when people are upset but I don't know what to say ;n; I hope everything straightens itself out and i wish you the best in the future.
       
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      Stay strong. I'll miss you.
       
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