I apologize for calling your post noobish, but seriously it's not okay what you said. I suggest you just be a bit more careful next time.
This happens a lot when you're a moderator. You get disrespected. You need to keep calm and not disrespect the player. Trust me, I know.
And Laura, I really didnt mean for the IP that I typed to be a form of advertising. I just wanted to show proof that I have my own server and wasn't lying.