idk man, i don't think anyone here is in the position to give you relationship advice, as you probably have way more experience xd

Whatever makes you happy because it's better than being in an unhealthy relationship

It's not wrong to say that, and it wouldn't be a problem to admit it to us; dw bro. I'll try to help though. If you're considering breaking up, then like think of what even made u consider in the first place. If you think the reason makes sense, then go for it. If not, then don't. But, as Wii said, I'm not qualified for giving advice at all xD, younger than u and obv it's ur decision, but I'm glad to try to help. :P

The more I retract, the closer she wants to be. I think she can sense me pulling away slowly.
@Voguified Its not unhealthy, we just are not right for each other and we are in different points of our lives.

What do u mean by diff points in ur lives? (don't answer if u don't want to :P)

Just one example, I want kids.

wait, if u want kids, y u retracting .-.
(correct me if i'm not getting something, i tend to say rash things)

@WiiTarded its ok, I don't want to go into the rest of it.

@WiiTarded omg wii, i just understood what u ment... Bad xD

i meant emotionally.

now that u mention it, i see what u mean xd
but nu i didnt mean that
for once someone else sees the dark side before i do xd

It's never good to keep your emotions to yourself in a relationship especially if it's something that serious. The best thing to do in a scenario like this would be to open up to your girlfriend and tell her how you're feeling rather than being one sided.

Your girlfriend and you will most likely come down to a mutual decision, that can be either good or bad but something you both agree on. At the end of the day if you are saying that you and your girlfriend are not right for each other, then it would be best to talk to her as having a one-sided relationship would make the other partner very sad when you eventually bring the situation up.

Instead of breaking up, give her a chance. Talk to her about it, and let her know how the choices in the relationship aren't promoting a strong bond and that you guys need to work it out.

Constructive and deep conversations w ur partner can rlly help no matter how stupid they may seem.

@reborn, that may be a bit risky for him to do, because for example, if he even brings up the talk, as he said, his gf may sense something's up, and this can lead to an easy breakup. But, I see what u mean, and it has a good chance of working as well. We just don't know how his life is :P

Well of course the gf is going to know something is up xP

It should be fine if you have a sit down and talk about it casually. Don't make it too uncomfortable, and don't rush it. ;p

I find this so hilarious because reborn is like 12 (No offense, buddy)

none taken ;p

I'm legit saying the same advice I gave to one of my ex-friends and managed to get things ok with his gf for a long while.
Ever since they left eachother he's been a douche to everyone (must be depresson) since so I've blocked him on skype and yeah