not trying to offend them but no one replies to my messages or anything and all im trying to do is make this server better

You can tag them by putting an @ and then their forum name. eg @iBilly .

i personally message them aswell

Would you like me to report him for you?

i got banned on kitpvp for my skill i guess.. because i can focus on 2 targets or even 3 at once

Make an appeal and ask for evidence.

i already did and the evidence doesnt prove anything on paypals youtube channel