I am not sure if it is just me, but I am having a hard time pinging to the server. Like it will let me join here and there, but ill get disconnected 2 minutes after the fact. I can't say it isn't but I don't believe it is my connection it never has been although recently I have taken some ddos's and they may be affecting but I have no idea. So if you're having a hard time pinging to the server just say something.
Lol, it's not easy to fry a router. Any downloadable booter these days can't fry routers from what I've heard(unless maybe you're paying hundreds of dollars). Have you tried resetting your router? Also, when you reset your router, does it change your IP? Basically do you have a static or dynamic IP.