It keeps lagging me and kicking me saying to many packets, this causes me to die and lose my items please help me
Typically, when it says you are sending too many packets, its whatever clients you have installed within your Minecraft. Try uninstalling your clients/mods.
Then StackerJr, Try What Dyna Mighty said and uninstalling your clients/mods and if that did not work then try checking your internet connection to the server and seeing if your just getting bad ping/Connection. Hope this helps!
I figured it out, that day I heard it was kicking alot of people because of server lag, and yea, that did help tho, Ty :(