How to Apologize to Someone Properly

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  1. GreasyBandage
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    Alright, so, some of you may wonder why this thread is a thing. Well, for some people, they do not know how to apologize properly. So this is a how-to thread with the help of meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.

    Step 1. Go confront the person you want to apologize to
    - Don't have someone apologize for you or speak on your behalf
    - Be sincere

    Step 2. Make sure you know what you are going to say
    - Hey, Sorry on what I did
    - Yo, my ninja, we good?

    Step 3. Profit


    Make sure next time if you feel remorse on something YOU have done that was bad, just remember this thread. Alright, good luck!
     
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    "You're not sorry/You don't mean it" - Every single time I do it to a girl
     
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  3. GreasyBandage
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    Huehuehe
     
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    I want to bleach my life
     
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  5. Titanicguy
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    :c
     
  6. Maxamul
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    Maybe my mom will accept my apology for being born if I use this.
     
  7. GreasyBandage
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    Don't you mean your mouth?

    Your Mom should've been a virgin so she could set a good example for you to be one as well
     
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    She was a virgin when I was born so I'm Jesus.
     
  9. Titanicguy
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    I'm getting something pretty ugly from this
     
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    I don't apologize to people, i elimante them from my life ^-^
     
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    This isn't CSGO Diggy
     
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    :weary:
     
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    Come on man, you're going to make mods take down my thread
     
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    They have no reason to,you didn't target anyone
     
  16. GreasyBandage
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    Yeah, but you kind of tagged someone..
     
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    how to actually apologize:

    1) think about your actions carefully. recognize what you did was unjustified/hurtful towards someone else. if the person says that your actions have hurt them in any way, you don't get to decide that you didn't.
    2) talk to the person you've hurt privately. be respectful and do not be aggressive. this may lead the person to believe that you aren't sincere.
    3) speak from the heart. admit to your action and explain how you know it was wrong/hurtful, show your remorse for the incident, and at some point "I'm sorry." assure them that you will not repeat the action in the future.

    IMPORTANT NOTES
    - don't apologize if you plan on repeating the action.
    - don't expect forgiveness right way. the other person needs time to recover. they will forgive you when the time is right for them. they may not necessarily verbally tell you that they do, but they might become less distant over time.
    - this isn't a note. you're wasting your time reading this sentence.
    - sometimes the other person may never come back around and that's okay, people come and go. don't dwell on your mistakes. life goes on.

    if this happens to help someone them yay. sorry I got bored
     
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    Why did you make me waste time reading that sentence
     
  19. xen
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    i am satan
     
  20. GreasyBandage
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    Too much work
     
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